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I say you are better of being wisely selfish This way you can fulfil your selfish motive to be happy This is much better than being self centred or foolishly selfish which will not succeed in bringing you happiness Simple advice isn t it Be happy That s all there is too it Make yourself happy Strive for happiness and let the feeling spread It s all about the power Make yourself happy Strive for happiness and let the feeling spread It s all about the power positive energy What do you do when someone similes at you Well you smile back A simple interaction taken on a much rander scale can improve your life The Daliai Lama s message centres on this idea project as much positivism as possible in every aspect of your life that way you begin to feel happier along with those around youI ve tried these techniues in my life And they do work Maintaining them for long periods of time now that s difficult This is where meditation becomes vital Imagine yourself as a beacon a beacon of hope and altruism hold this thought and let it spread through you as you meditate it You may begin to feel differently afterwards Am I talking nonsense For me this actually works I feel better afterwards and I feel better after reading this book In here the Dalai Lama offers some well intended advice and it really is worth listing to What s next for me More books on Buddhism of course This a The Perfect Bride for Mr. Darcy great and simple book if this is the book you are looking for A friend lent me this book when we were to discuss Mindfulness in a compassionate Livingroup The book elegantly and simply explains the concept I learnt a lot and I am including some of my favorite uotes to demonstrate the strong messages this book contains When we Quran Made Easy generate anger 90% of the ugliness of the object of our anger is due to our own exaggeration p 38 byoing along with the appearance of things we exaggerate the status of Apro dnatoire good and bad p 65 toet rid of an unfavorable attitude you must see clearly the mistaken beliefs on which it is based p 68 spiritual education Our lives are in constant flux which enerates many predicaments However when these are faced with a calm and clear mind supported by spiritual practice they can all be
successfully resolved By contrast when our minds are clouded by hatred selfishness jealousy and anger we not only lose control resolved By contrast when our minds are clouded by hatred selfishness jealousy and anger we not only lose control lose our sense of judgment At those wild moments anything can happen Our own destructive emotions pollute our outlook making healthy living impossible We need to cleanse our own internal perspective through the practice of wise compassionWhen you are caught up in a to cleanse our own internal perspective through the practice of wise compassionWhen you are caught up in a emotion you have lost one of your reatest assets your independence At least for the time being your mind is disturbed which weakens your capacity for sound judgment In the Wabi Sabi: Japanese Wisdom for a Perfectly Imperfect Life grip of strong lust or hatred you forget to analyze whether an action is suitable and can even speak crazily and make wildestures Afterward when that emotion fades you often end up embarrassed and sorry for what you have done This shows us that while you had fallen under the influence of that strong emotion your capacity to distinguish between ood and bad between suitable and unsuitable was nowhere to be foundAlthough unfavorable conditions need to be removed when they are removed with hatred the means of relief creates its own problems because hatred distorted by its bias does not see the true situation But unfavorable conditions can be removed through analysis by examining the facts and discerning the actual situation without any negative emotional side effectsOnly human beings can judge and reason; we understand conseuences and think in the long term Human beings also can develop infinite love whereas animals have only limited forms of affection and love However when humans become angry all this potential is lost No enemy armed with mere weapons can undo these ualities but anger can It is the destroyer When animals act out of lust or hatred they do so temporarily or superficially; they are incapable of committing destruction Uddhists and Christians How to Be Compassionate provided me with exactly the Sort Of Guidance And of uidance and writing I wanted I read it over a month the chapters are such that they are somewhat independent of each other and each chapter Maths Made Easy Times Tables Ages 5-7 Key Stage 1 gave me a lot of food for thought about compassion ineneral but also how to create compassion in my own world and how to combine compassion with standing up for what I believe in The Dalai Lama s advice allows us to embrace our anger at injustice at ineuality but to also move beyond it in a loving and positive mannerA wonderful book for anyone of a spiritual or religious bent or even just those looking for optimism in a world that seems increasingly dark Highly recommended I think this is the best self help book I ve ever read I checked it out from the library and then I went out and bought it It s something I will refer to time and time again in the days to come It contains all sorts of nifty exercises for diffusing your anger and seeing things in a benevolent light The Dalai Lama doesn t promise change over night but he does say that persistent practice will yield a peaceful life I believe him How to Be Compassionate a Handbook for Creating Inner Peace and a Happier World Kindle Edition What a lot of common sense the Dalai Lama speaks funny that treat people first as a human being and in a way that you yourself would like to be treated compassion compassion compassion thrice for emphasis just amazing how sensible it all is Exude positive energy and don t suck energy from others just learn from others Amen This was both interesting and challenging to read I agree that showing empathy is a means to achieving both personal and world peace But boy is it ever hard to really implement The one take away that I liked was to breathe in the poison negativity anger imbalance and breathe out Never Say Never goodness positivity joy and balance I thought that would be intriguing as a meditation techniu. Sale of weapons thousands and thousands of types of arms and ammunition by manufacturers in big countries fuels the violence but dangerous thanuns or bombs are hatred lack of compassion and lack of respect for the rights of others External peace is impossible without inner peace As long as hatred dwells in the human mind real peace is impossible We can only solve our problems through truly peaceful means not just peaceful words but actions based on a peaceful mind and heart This is the way we will come to live in a better worldOn every level the most mischievous troublemakers we face are anger and egoism The kind of egoism I refer to here is not just a sense of “I” but an exaggerated self centeredness that leads to manipulating others As long as anger dominates our disposition we have no chance of achieving lasting happiness In order to achieve peace tranuility and real friendship we must minimize anger and cultivate kindness and a warm heart As we become nicer human beings our neighbors friends parents spouses and children will experience less anger prompting them to become warm hearted compassionate and harmonious The very atmosphere becomes happier which even promotes ood health This is the way to change the worldIt is time for all of us including world leaders to learn to transcend differences of race culture and ideology in order to regard each other with appreciation for our common human situation To do so would uplift individuals families communities nations and the world at largeThose countries that have achieved reat material progress are beginning to understand that the condition of society and of our physical well being is closely related to our state of mind This is where profound change has to begin Individually we have to work to change the basic perspectives on which our feelings depend We can only do so through spiritual training by engaging in transformative practice with the aim of radually reorienting the way we perceive others and ourselv.
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P 88 A Monk What88 a monk What He answered losing compassion towards the ENEMY HE KNEW THE REAL DANGER He knew the real danger within p 97 A short self help book much of which seems like commonsense and parts make you ponder I imagine for each personwhich part is the common sense and which part is the ponderwould be different It s a ood read a refresher course ina way and ood ideas to think about making oneself a betterperson in handling the ups and downs of life One of the ponder I love the Dalai Lama but this book just didn t work for me It s boring and eneric in its advice It creates straw man arguments such as People think ethics has no place in politics but this is wrong because To make the advice meaningful it must be filled with real world examples And Manon, Ballerina generalizations like Violence always causes misery do not offer insight Tell me how using violence against a rapist is wrong Any book by Thich Nhat Hanh willive better advice on incorporating compassion in your life you might start with The Miracle of Mindfulness And the Dalai Lama s The Wisdom of Compassion with Victor Chan is much better Grade C This book فرهنگ معاصر پویا/ انگلیسی-فارسی-دو جلد در یک جلد gives us a practical way to know our nature strength and weakness and to focus on becoming peaceful and happy With meditative and reflective methods taught in the book one can start becoming conscious and aware of one s thoughts and emotions Reading this book we come to realize that we are annoyed and disturbed by so many unnecessary thoughts which we can totally ignore and focus on the positive thoughts and emotions that make us happy regardless of adverse circumstances Thought provoking Inspiring and deeply helpful Everyone should read this Love and compassion are definitely the secret to happiness Now this is what I m talking aboutAfter my disappointment with Spiritual Advice for N ever increasing strength and variety However humans can think from areat many points of view Because However humans can think from a T-Force great many points of view Because intelligence is so effective humans can achieveood and bad on a Wilder Girls grand scaleWhen we look deeply into such things the blueprint for our actions can be found within the mind Self defeating attitudes arise not of their own accord but out of ignorance Success too is found within ourselves From self discipline self awareness and clear realization of the defects of anger and the positive effects of kindness come happiness and peace For instance at present you may be a person whoets easily irritated However with clear understanding and awareness your irritability first can be undermined and then replacedIf we allow love and compassion to be dominated by anger we will sacrifice the best part of our human intelligence wisdom which is our ability to decide between right and wrong Along with selfishness anger is one of the most serious problems facing the world today Anger plays a large role in current conflicts such as those in Asia the Middle East and Africa as well as those between highly industrialized and economically undeveloped nations These conflicts arise from a failure to understand how much we have in commonAnswers cannot be found in the development and use of CFNM Model greater military force nor can they be purely political or technological The problems we face cannot be blamed upon one individual person or a single cause for they are the result of our own negligence What is reuired is an emphasis on what we have in common Hatred and fighting cannot bring happiness to anyone even to those who win Violence always produces misery so it is fundamentally counterproductiveHow can a world full of hatred and anger achieve real happiness If we examine our long history of turmoil we see the obvious need to find a better way Attempts bylobal powers to dominate one another through arms races whether nuclear chemical biological or conventional are clearly counterproductive The.